Praying for your husband...
When we pray for our pornography addicted husbands or boyfriends, we are interceding for them. It is prayer that moves the hand of God.
Great deliverances come when people pray, sometimes so surprisingly that we may find it difficult to believe, ourselves! (read more)
There is Hope !
Millions of people in America and around the world go through their daily lives merely existing, with no peace and no joy. Their existence often consists only of a steady diet of compulsive or addictive behavior.
Such behavior may involve drugs, alcohol, pornography or perverted sexual desires. Whatever form it takes, it controls the person while never contributing anything to soundness of mind, peace, happiness, job security, or family togetherness. Worst of all, it does nothing to improve one's walk with his or her Creator. Instead, it invariably drives a wedge, blow by blow, between that person and the relationship he or she desires to have with God and with those people who live and work around him or her. (read more)
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This side of the wall...
Thoughts from the heart of a former pornography addict's wife.
"Over here I have a life. Oh sure, it’s a good life…as far as anyone else knows. Good clothes, impressive house. Yeah, it’s a house, but it’s far from being a home. It’s full of heartbreak. It’s full of hopelessness. My heart feels betrayed, and I feel…alone.
You see, my husband is a pornography addict. He has a road job and is almost never here. To be honest, he’s occasionally here…in this house, but he’s almost never home in his heart. He spends far more money on those books and videos than he spends on me. They are his real desire, not me. I feel like he is cheating on me. We fuss. I sense no love or regard coming from him. My senses let me feel no connection like those I’ve dreamed that a married couple should have. Instead, between us are books…stacks and stacks of books, terrible books. They form a wall, really. I know I can’t reach thru that wall. I’ve tried. Oh, how I’ve tried. It’s been like this for who knows how many years.” (read more)
Overcoming porn addiction...
Holes in the Heart
One of the most common complaints that we receive at Man On The Road is from wives who believe that their feelings do not matter to their porn-addicted husbands. Almost every day we hear from a wife whose husband continues to use pornography and then lie about it. These women frequently tell us that their husbands attempt to play the blame shifting game. “If you had done this or that, I wouldn’t feel the need to use pornography.” Or, “If you would get your weight under control, I’d stop.” (read more)
Prayer...
The beginning of change ...
No matter where you are in your struggle with pornography addiction or sexual addiction, prayer is the beginning of change... (read more)
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Dear Hearts...
Do's and Don'ts
You are probably reading this page because you know someone who has an addiction to pornography or sex. I know your struggle. It’s long and it seems hopeless. But I’m here to tell you that it is not hopeless. I’m living with my husband who was miraculously delivered from pornography addiction. He had used it from the age of thirteen. The first thing that I could have used is a list of things to do and not to do. I was blinded by the pain of the discovery and wanted to help push this behind us. (read more)
Interesting reading...
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